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Post by Maru on Mar 1, 2009 15:01:14 GMT -8
So, basically, what happened was that we had been playing poker on MSN the night before, and I won the hand where I bet that I would sit in his lap. We had discussed that we weren't gonna actually act on the bets, but when we played poker at school the next day, he bet something and won that hand. He then said that until I did that, we were gonna stop playing cards, so I said that then I would get to sit in his lap. He agreed, and so I sat in his lap. We ended up making out in the stairwell during our spare. And Katie walked in on us. That's about it. We didn't get caught though. We were kicked out while playing crazy eights on Tuesday, so then he got all bitchy. Hence why I've been avoiding him.
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Post by Yu-Baaba on Mar 1, 2009 15:15:14 GMT -8
Hahaha!! Wow. Dare I even ask what he bet for you to do . . . ?__?
Katie is the friend of yours who enjoys bugging Colten, correct?
What is your guys' status right now, btw? Are you officially together or not?
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Post by Maru on Mar 1, 2009 15:21:27 GMT -8
Yes, she is. He bet my shirt and bra. He is claiming that he met someone a thousand miles away, and that he's engaged currently... but he's racist, and judging from his reaction when I added him on my alter ego's Facebook account, he wouldn't randomly meet someone like that.
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Post by Yu-Baaba on Mar 1, 2009 15:25:40 GMT -8
Wow. What a weirdo - to just make up something like that I mean. And he's racist???
I know I've said this before, but seriously what do you see in this guy?? You could do so much better!!!!! But I'm sure you know that!
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Post by Maru on Mar 1, 2009 15:27:36 GMT -8
Yeah. One time in grade 9 geography, way back when we were together, we were doing an assignment, and he kept making racist comments. And then the other day, he was saying that it was good that people were starving because that means that we're eating well/get to breathe more, and stuff like that.
I don't even know what I see in him. All I know is that I can't go out with anyone else without feeling like I'm cheating on him.
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Post by Tin on Mar 1, 2009 15:47:25 GMT -8
But you're not cheating on him, Maru. You might be finding a better fish.
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Post by Douko on Mar 1, 2009 16:12:40 GMT -8
If you don't move on from him, then you'll live your whole life wanting him, and not see any one but him. Which would be bad.
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Hin
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Post by Hin on Mar 1, 2009 16:45:04 GMT -8
First of all, you're not cheating on him. Second, why don't you just tell him what you think and later go out with somebody.
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Post by Maru on Mar 1, 2009 18:07:05 GMT -8
Guys, I know that it's not, it's just like a mental issue kinda thing.
Hin, it's because I'm not over him, because he's the one I like.
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Post by Tin on Mar 1, 2009 18:28:50 GMT -8
Hmmm...
And then it becomes the question of... How to get over Colten.
You could like... join like Alcoholics Anonymous or would it be Boyfriends Anonymous, and basically try to get over him in steps. ..... Do they make a patch for getting over boyfriends?
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Post by Yu-Baaba on Mar 1, 2009 21:51:23 GMT -8
I don't even know what I see in him. All I know is that I can't go out with anyone else without feeling like I'm cheating on him. Wow. That's pretty amazing to feel that strongly about him still! Should I be so lucky to care about someone that much (or have someone care about me that way!). It's a shame that your emotions have been devoted to someone so unworthy . . . I know you know intellectually that he's not right for you, but I know that still can't change how you feel. Still, as your friends it would be irresponsible of us not to remind u of these facts every now and then! ^__~ Tin, you're a genius!! It's so obvious. It's been staring right at us all along!! We need to form a Getting Over Colten therapy group!! XD XD XD
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Post by Tin on Mar 1, 2009 22:22:28 GMT -8
Hahahahaha. Yup. We need a therapy group for Maru. And all of us can be in it. ^^
It'll be like an AA meeting/Fish are Friends not food sort of thing.
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Post by Yu-Baaba on Mar 1, 2009 22:31:50 GMT -8
Yah! We need a catchy mantra like that!!
Something like "Colten is loser, not lover!" (sorry Maru!^^)
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Post by Tin on Mar 1, 2009 22:39:17 GMT -8
Exactly!
Man, we could make so much money by coming up with mantras for people. I think at least. XD
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Post by Douko on Mar 1, 2009 23:13:02 GMT -8
Something like "Colten is loser, not lover!" CILNL!
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